Courtship Practices in Catanduanes, Philippines
Joseph G. Zafe | Maricel S. Cariaso | Dennis T Teves | Reimarl M. Fuentebella
Discipline: Anthropology
Abstract:
This qualitative research aimed to determine the courtship practices in
Catanduanes by exploring the values, activities, communication methods, and
challenges encountered by different generations during courtship. The study
identified three phases of courtship: attraction, comfort and trust, and
seduction. Findings revealed that personality traits such as kindness, courtesy,
respect, humor, responsibility, sweetness, and caring, as well as physical
attractiveness, play significant roles in mutual attraction. Comfort and trust
were built through activities like gift-giving, socialization, getting to know each
other, acts of service, traditional serenades ("Harana"), and bridging. Intimacy
was fostered through seduction activities such as holding hands, hugging,
cuddling, kissing, and sexual intercourse. The transition between traditional
and modern communication methods reflected local norms and beliefs.
Challenges in courtship included jealousy, third-party involvement, and
financial and health issues. The study recommends further research on
courtship evolution, married life, and parenting styles in Catanduanes,
suggesting their inclusion in the school curriculum to strengthen family
foundations and promote community harmony.
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