More than Grief and Resilience: The Posttraumatic Growth of Grieving Parents by Suicide in Bataan, Philippines
Jayvie Villazor | Rosalito G. De Guzman
Discipline: Psychology
Abstract:
The death by suicide of a family member causes adverse disruption to the surviving
family. However, a positive transformation following the loss of a loved one by suicide
is possible. The present study seeks to describe and elaborate on the essence of a
parent’s experience in its attempt to overcome grieving and other adverse effects of a
loss. Using a descriptive phenomenology design, the researchers conducted face-toface
and virtual semi-structured interviews with nine participants from the province
of Bataan, Philippines. The participants are grieving parents who lost their child
by suicide from the years 2018 to 2020. The findings revealed 7R of posttraumatic
growth (PTG) or themes, namely: relationship with a higher being, reconstruction
of parenting style, refined family relations, regard for others, redefined orientation
of life, rediscovery of the self, and processing the loss of a child. Furthermore, each
theme generated subthemes that elaborated and described a parent’s firsthand grieving
experience on PTG more in-depth, which can be a basis in making intervention
programs and organizing support groups. It can also assist clinicians in knowing the
factors that foster and elevate posttraumatic growth in grieving parents by suicide.
This study will add to the knowledge of psychotraumatology, thanatology, and suicidology
in the Philippines. Finally, further research into the themes of parenting style
reconstruction and reprocessing child loss is highly recommended.
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