Beyond Ken and Barbie: Uncovering the Coming-Out Stories of Adolescent Lesbians
Catherine Jessica Mateo | Trisha Galang | Chelsea Anne Carreon | Xander James Viñas | Francine Zyla Padua | Ian Roy Gozo | Aira Star Oloresisimo | Michaela Salazar | John Mark Asis | Hardie Gieben Cruz
Discipline: Sociology
Abstract:
Despite the Philippines' apparent acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community, adolescent lesbians continue to face significant challenges, particularly during the coming out process. This study explores the intersection of cultural norms and religious beliefs in the Philippines and how these factors influence the decisions of adolescent lesbians to disclose their sexual identity. Employing semi-structured interviews and purposive sampling, the researchers gathered personal narratives from seven participants residing in the City of Mandaluyong. The data, analyzed through thematic coding, revealed a spectrum of experiences. While some participants described positive coming out experiences, characterized by familial acceptance and support from LGBTQ+ communities, others encountered considerable obstacles, including societal stigmas and restrictive familial expectations. The study underscores that the coming out journey remains fraught with difficulties, despite evolving societal attitudes. However, it also highlights the resilience of adolescent lesbians, who, despite the challenges, find strength and positive outcomes in their experiences. This research contributes to a deeper understanding of the complexities surrounding the coming out process in the Philippine context, emphasizing both the persistent struggles and the potential for healing and growth.
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